Can I Romance Astarion and Then Switch to Another Character Later?

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So, I’m on my first playthrough of the game and totally decided to romance Astarion right after the Tiefling party. Now that I’m exploring the Underdark in Act 1, I’ve learned more about other characters and I’m starting to lean towards them instead. Here’s the kicker: I got a warning icon from Astarion when trying to long rest, and it seems like another romance scene is coming up. My question is, if I go through with this scene with Astarion, can I still pursue another character later on? Will Astarion get upset about it? I’m feeling stuck because I really need to rest but keep hesitating on camping. Help!

Can I Romance Astarion and Then Switch to Another Character Later
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ChoiceCraftingGamer -

It really depends on who you want to pursue! While some romances can begin after the Tiefling party, others, like with Karlach, Wyll, or Shadowheart, are too late without mods. You might have Gale and Lae’zel still available unless you’ve turned them down before, and yes, you can date two Origin characters early on, but eventually, you will have to make a choice between them. Just take your time!

InformedExplorer -

That makes sense; I definitely need to weigh my options carefully!

EpicQuestMaster -

You can definitely friend-zone Astarion after initially romancing him. You’ll have the option to do this in Act 2, so don’t stress too much about it! Just remember to not avoid camping since that’s where a lot of the romance and approval scenes happen. Also, after you sleep with Astarion, if you decide to romance someone else, there’ll be a moment in Act 2 where you choose between them. It can be a bit sad, but they move on pretty quick!

HeroOfTheStory -

Gotcha, thanks for the heads up!

AstarionFan123 -

Don’t worry about committing to Astarion! His romance is super popular for a reason. You will have chances to explore other romances, but just be aware there might be consequences. Astarion could end up sad if you choose someone else. Just know that it’s all part of the game!

LootGoblin99 -

Absolutely! You can enjoy a romance with Astarion and still chase after someone else later. Just keep in mind that the second scene with him is more of a fade to black, not as intense as the first one. If you decide to go for another character, you’ll have your heart-to-heart moment where you’ll need to choose—Astarion might feel bummed, but he’ll bounce back quickly!

RemorsefulRogue -

I feel so guilty about that already, though!

MysticSeeker -

You can actually romance both Astarion and Halsin at the same time if you play it right! Halsin is more understanding and won’t mind if you juggle both. Choose wisely, and enjoy the ride!

CuriousAdventurer -

I can’t decide between Halsin and Minthara yet! Who should I pick?

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